My friend sent me this quote from the ancient Mystic, Rumi. It contains the secret to success in anything and everything.
“When I run after what I think I want, my days are a furnace of stress and anxiety. If I sit in my own place of patience, what I need flows to me, and without struggle or pain.”
From this I understand that what I want also wants me, is looking for me and attracting me.
There is a great secret here for anyone who can grasp it.